Sunday, May 5, 2013

Complaining is Evidence of Unbelief

Are you daily Complaining about Your Baby Daddy, Hair Weave or hair day, and Boogie Boss that attended a five Star College but lack a 5
cent common sense…?

How negative people program our minds I said many times before that the mind can be programmed by repetition. The reason most people fall in love with those they meet every day is that they get programmed by them on continues basis and the reason you buy brand names is the continues programming you received though brand advertisements. Not all programming works because for an idea to turn into a belief you have to trust the source of the idea. Now the problem is that negative people are among our friends, relatives and the most trusted people we know. Before you’re realized you must know thy self, are you becoming that friend or family??????

We may know it by different terms -- such as griping, grumbling, whining, or belly-aching. In the King James Version of the Bible, the common term used was “murmuring.” But regardless of the word we use to describe it, complaining always has the has the same symptoms. The dictionary defines it as “an expression of unhappiness, dissatisfaction, or discontent.” Complaining is the outward expression of discontent Nothing makes chronic complainers happier, than being more miserable...Despite how difficult their constant complaints are for those around them; chronic complainers do not usually see themselves as negative peopling from within.

We must realized how being around complainers rub off on our own personality. As we look back into the Old Testament and see how God dealt with the Children of Israel, we discover that the Lord always considered their complaints as an act of unbelief directed toward Him. When they complained about their circumstances, their type of food, and even at Moses, God was displeased because they weren’t thankful for what He had provided them. He was disappointed that they refused to trust in Him to provide, protect, and direct the order of their lives. “Now when the people complained, it displeased the LORD; for the LORD heard it, and His anger was aroused. So the fire of the LORD burned among them, and consumed some in the outskirts of the camp” (Numbers 11:1).

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Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Why Making "No Decision" About Your Relationship is wrong

If you're like a lot of people (and couples), you might think that if you put off the decision of whether you want to stay in or leave your relationship, the problems you are having will somehow magically heal themselves or disappear. They won't. If you don't invest some quality time now in taking an honest and truthful look at the state of your relationship, you could stay stuck in this place of indecision for a very long time. It's amazing to us how many people are stuck in "limbo" about this decision and are content to stay stuck in this place of indecision about their relationship. So many people waste so much precious time when they could be experiencing an incredible relationship filled with love, passion and joy, either in their current relationship or one that is more of what they want. But it's not your fault... We do this because very often, as we're growing up, we're taught to hold back, not tell people how we really feel or what's important to us. We're taught to NOT "rock the boat' and to not cause trouble. We're also no usually taught anything about our emotions and how to deal with them that we're aware of. In school, we're taught a lot of things that we may or may not ever use such as math, sciences and of course a foreign language but no class about relationships or communication is offered anywhere that we know of. Not one. Then, later in life, we wonder why our relationships are falling apart when we've done our best and can't seem to find any easy answers. To get started in making this decision, we encourage you to take an honest look at your situation and feel how much pain you've been feeling about this relationship. If having a great relationship is important to you, you need to decide that you're not willing to live without the love, passion, intimacy, tenderness, connection and yes, even sex any longer. You have to take the first step to create the kind of relationship and love you want in your life. We're not suggesting that you should leave your current relationship or marriage and head out looking for the new love of your life. That's your decision and one that should only be made after some careful insight and thinking. What we are telling you is that life is too short to go through it without having the love you want and the love that's possible for all of us. If you are in a relationship that is causing you to wonder whether you can make it work or if it would be better to leave, it's important that you take some time now to gain clarity so that you'll be able to ask yourself openly and honestly whether you'll be able to heal the challenges. The question "Should you stay or should you go?" is certainly a big decision. It could be the biggest decision of your life. It's the one decision you absolutely, positively want to be certain about. This is a decision you don't want to regret later. You also don't want to stay stuck for very long either... xoxo http://about.me/dr.monicawatts

Saturday, December 29, 2012

Wishing you great success and fulfilling happiness this New Year and beyond

How are you? Wishing you great success and fulfilling happiness this New Year and beyond. Most people set their goals at the start of the year, but many still fail to achieve them. That's why I'd like to share resources to help you set and achieve any goal you want in life! Book appointment, accountability is an extremely powerful system, so set aside an hour to It will be well worth your time.


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I received my training From Celebrity Life Coach Steve G. Jones, as a Certified Neuron-Linguistic Programming & Life Coach practitioner awarded by NLP University in which I have discovered life changing techniques. I believe firmly that NLP is a major part of the future of healing in a world which is becoming more enlightened about non drug-based therapies. Though I do not dispute the value of traditional medicine in many cases, I fully embrace a model of health care which emphasizes the power of the individual's mind in healing and general well-being. I will share tools and recommendations you can use to find true success located inside Behavioral Wellness and Arts is the Only Steve Jones Pensacola Library.

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Tuesday, December 18, 2012

BWBA Inspirational Movie & Resource Center


If you are like me, you love a good, uplifting, inspirational and entertaining movie. The challenge these days is that such movies are not that easy to find. With all the violence and negativity that forms the core of most movies, we subject ourselves to so many negative messages that keep us stuck, suffering, and manifesting the things we do not want in our lives. After all, the mind can not distinguish on an emotional level, what is real from what is vividly imagined. That's why we cry when watching a sad movie or become agitated and afraid when viewing a horror movie. When we subject ourselves to the violent and dysfunctional trash that constitutes so many of the movies available at the theatre, "on demand" or from the DVD store, we reinforce the negative self-talk that brings us down and affects our expectations for what our future will be like.
 
The Law of Attraction is about manifesting those things that we focus upon and make large in our lives. So, it stands to reason that if we want to be infused with love, fun, contribution, caring, inspiration, harmony, peace, rich relationships, abundance, and fulfillment, it does not serve us to subject our subconscious minds to hatred, violence, abusive or negative people, or to those who live from fear, sadness, anger or scarcity.
 
Our Behavioral Wellness and Birth Arts affiliate associates feel the same way. They help me scan the world for heart-opening, soul-stirring, inspirational and informative films that you won't find on Cable or in your local DVD store. They are committed to enriching the entertainment experience for everyone by making available each month four inspiring pieces: one full length film plus a combination of shorts, documentaries, and features you won't find at your local Cineplex. I just finished watching this month's selections and am both impressed with their selections and truly grateful for their service.
 
They have graciously offered our BWBA  a free Movie Preview  no obligation to continue (you can cancel at any time), so you can personally experience the quality of their entertainment package. If you decide to continue with their service, it is quite affordable at $50.00 per month, and you join me with healthy snacks, or get to keep the DVDs to build your library,  or pass along to those you care about.
 

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Sunday, November 11, 2012

Saving A Relationship-Can You Still Remember The Good Times

Saving A Relationship-Can You Still Remember The Good Times

It's a safe bet that there was a time that two of you were happier than you are now. Things used to be better, but now you are at a point where you are concerned about saving a relationship. The good news is that the odds are in your favor, but only if you follow the right steps and are determined to make it happen. Before you start putting any effort into saving your relationship, you need to make sure that you really want to save it. Now, you may be thinking that's a pretty stupid point because you wouldn't be reading this otherwise. However, it's quite common for people to think they want to save their relationship, when in reality, they are afraid of being alone. There's a big difference between those two ideas. From this point forward, we will assume that you want your relationship to be saved. There is a well-known phrase that says "those who ignore history are condemned to repeat it." To put it another way, you need to stop making the same mistakes if you want things to get better. The only way for that to happen is to know exactly what those mistakes were in the first place. This can take some digging, as you need to get to the root of the problem. Don't assume that your initial reaction is what's really wrong. Your initial reactions are typically nothing more than symptoms of your real problems.

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Once you have an idea of the true cause of strife in your relationship, you need to work on a solution. Keep in mind that the only person that you can change is yourself. If your partner is the main source of the problems, then you need to figure out a way to make it less of a problem. You will need to have an open conversation with them and see what can be done. Depending on the circumstances, you have a few basic choices if your partner did something wrong. You can get their word that they will change, you can pretend it didn't happen, or you can forgive them. If they promise to do better, then that's great, but you should watch to make sure that they are backing up their words with action. Pretending nothing happened seems like the easy way out, but it's not really a way out at all, as it will only lead to the same things happening again and again. Forgiving them can be hard to do, but it brings the most relief. These things are only a good start to saving a relationship, but they are a good start. Keep seeking more information on making things work, and be sure to take action. Over time, your relationship will get better, and any effort you invest in making it so will come back to you in pleasantly unexpected ways.

Sunday, April 29, 2012

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Saturday, March 31, 2012

read people's minds and emotions

Today, I'd like to share with you 2 interesting
videos to help you read people's minds and
emotions.

The first video explains what various hand gestures
mean to help you read people's body language better.

The second video shows you the body language men
and women use to indicate their interest (or lack
thereof).

See the videos here:
http://20daypersuasion.com/self-help-video-033112.htm
Dr.Monica Watts-Hopkins *abd
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