read people's minds and emotions

Today, I'd like to share with you 2 interesting
videos to help you read people's minds and
emotions.

The first video explains what various hand gestures
mean to help you read people's body language better.

The second video shows you the body language men
and women use to indicate their interest (or lack
thereof).

See the videos here:
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A Divorce Article That Will Give You The Best Tips

A Divorce Article That Will Give You The Best Tips

A divorce, regardless of whether or not it is on good terms or bad, can be a costly and traumatic experience. Neither side are likely to come to an easy agreement and it can be dragged out, cause grief for everyone involved. However if you can come to agreements and end it quickly, you can save everyone a lot of grief.

There are a lot of a divorce article out there that can give you advice and help you get through your divorce. They can come in a wide range of topics to help you with virtually any problem you might have. This one will list five things you can do to avoid grief in a divorce.

1. Avoid involving children. If you have kids you probably love them dearly and want what is best for them. However divorces often bring out our ugly side and parents find themselves dragging their kids into the divorce. The most common way kids are involved is by trying to get them to pick sides. Both parents trying to turn the kids against the other parent. This is the worst thing you can do for your children and you must not do it under any circumstance.

Kids are impressionable and by dragging them through this can cause a very traumatic scar that will be with them for the rest of their lives. As bitter as you are with your spouse, it is best to try to maintain a stable atmosphere for your kids. At the very least you should be able to set aside problems with your spouse for your kid's sake.

2. Making demands. Another thing a divorce article might cover is how you lay down demands for your spouse. People will use divorces as an excuse to exact revenge for whatever mis-deeds they feel their spouse has committed. You should avoid doing this, even if your divorce is bitter and your marriage not the best, it is advisable that you make fair agreements and allow both parties to have a fair amount.

3. Communicating with your spouse. Communication is important, just not between you and your spouse. Avoiding contact is best during a divorce, only talking through your lawyers, or when your lawyers are present. This is mostly for legal reasons since if you agree to something your spouse says, they can use that in court and screw you over. So it is best to only talk with a lawyer present.

4. Keep good records. Maintaining good records is important in a divorce, and any legal affair for that matter. You should keep a record of finances to protect yourself as well as dealing with any shared accounts so your spouse can not just take all of the money, leaving you with nothing.

5. Decide things with your lawyer. The last and most important thing a divorce article can tell you is to talk with your lawyer and come to decisions with them. Your lawyer is there to protect you and your assets during a divorce so make sure to always consult with your lawyer before taking action.

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 As a Metaphysician with a Christian religious background and Philanthropist, I understand the practice of charity goes back bibically serving those in need. However daily people close their eyes not to address issues such as the tragic Haiti earthquake psychological effects years later or perhaps a church member suffering, very often the poverty and oppression are over looked, but the Bible reminds us that they are always on GOD mind, The Bible passages demonstrate various of concerns with the poor or suffering that a few of the 300 passages can be found on a Meet The Poor Blog http://www.zompist.com/meetthepoor.html:p

1.         Consequences of not serving the poor, there are blessings for those who serve the poor, there are consequences for those who oppress them... or who simply ignore them.

Is. 10:1-3. "Woe to those who enact evil statutes and to those who continually record unjust decisions, so as to deprive the needy of justice, and rob the poor of my people of their rights... Now what will you do in the day of punishment, and in the devastation which will come from afar?"

2.         Blessings on those who serve the poor, serving poor may be The Right Thing to Do; but the Bible also associates it with material and spiritual reward. Here we'll look at the benefits promised to those who serve the poor; in the next section we'll examine the consequences of not doing so. Prov. 22:9 He who is generous will be blessed, for he gives some of his food to the poor.

3.         God's commands concerning the poor this section collects some specific commands from Old and New Testaments on serving the poor.

Deut. 26:5-9. The Egyptians treated us harshly and afflicted us, and imposed hard labor on us. Then we cried to the LORD, the God of our fathers, and the LORD heard our voice and saw our affliction and our toil and our oppression; and the LORD brought us out of Egypt with a mighty hand and an outstretched arm and with great terror and with signs and wonders; and He has brought us to... this land flowing with milk and honey

                           Deut. 15:7. If there is a poor man among you, one of your brothers, in any of the towns of the land which the LORD your God is giving you, you shall not harden your heart, nor close your hand to your poor brother; but you shall freely open your hand to him, and generously lend him sufficient for his need in whatever he lacks.                                         

References

1The Bible on the Poor. (n.d.). Retrieved from http://www.zompist.com/meetthepoor.html

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Making The Most Of A Bad Break Up

making The Most Of A Bad Break Up

It is an awful feeling when your relationship ends so how do you deal with a bad break up? You shouldn't just go on with life and pretend that everything is ok. It's not healthy to deny what you are feeling and keep those feelings bottled up. It is fine to let yourself feel the hurt, in fact it is necessary for you to move on with your life.

You should handle your feelings in a healthy way. If you are feeling anger, it is not a good idea to go and threaten or hurt your ex because of your anger. There are better ways to handle your feelings.

It will take time to get over your ex and for the feelings of hurt and anger to go away. You will be able to move on faster if you use the time constructively and use it as a learning experience in relationship skills. This will be a much healthier way for you to deal with the bad break up and will also benefit you in future relationships.

Take a few days to feel your pain, but do put a time limit on it. You don't want to fall into a depression because you can't get over the hurt and pain that you are feeling. You will feel anger at some point and there are some ways to let that anger out without hurting anyone.

If you are really angry with your ex then take a picture of them and put it on the wall. Buy some marshmallows and use the marshmallows as darts to throw at the picture. Throw the marshmallows as hard as you can and while you throw them yell at your ex and tell him/her exactly what you think and what you are feeling. Let it all out! It might sound silly to throw marshmallows at a picture but it really is a great way to get out your anger and frustrations. You may even find yourself laughing and much happier when you have finished.

If you find yourself laughing after the marshmallow challenge then you know that your troubles aren't that bad and you will get past them. You will realize that you will survive and that you can handle what you are going through. Breaking up is not the end of the world, but a new beginning. If the relationship has broken up then chances are you just aren't meant to be together and now you can move on and find the real love of your life.

Don't rush out and start dating straight away though or you may find yourself in another bad relationship because it is a rebound relationship. Take some time to enjoy life being single and enjoy who you are for yourself and not for someone else. You will be much stronger now that you have used this bad break up as a learning experience and have improved your own self esteem and confidence. Your future relationships will be much stronger and happier.

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Ending A Relationship With Style

Ending A Relationship With Style

If the time has come to start thinking about ending a relationship there are some things you need to know to do it in style. Even if the trust and respect between the two of you has been long gone, you need to summon it back up and deal with the break up with some class. You will feel better about yourself for doing this much.

Ask them to meet you in a public place for coffee or whatever and when the time comes to end the relationship just say it and get it out on the table. There may be some discussion as to why you want to break up but if the relationship has been on the skids for some time it may not come as a surprise to your soon to be ex.

Never think that ending a relationship by email, text, or over the phone is a good idea. It isn't. The only time this is acceptable is if you think there will be violence then, by all means, do what you have to do to stay safe.

If you know for certain that your soon to be ex will not get violent then have enough respect for yourself to break up with them in person. You will know that you handled the break up with dignity and when they calm down they will respect you for it also.

There really is no way to let someone down easy. The best thing you can do is get it all out on the table so it can be dealt with. Do not prolong the issue. Say what needs to be said, excuse yourself then leave. This is best for both of you. There is no need to stick around and get caught up in a fight.

Do not place the blame on them even if it belongs there. Tell them that you just do not think that the relationship is working out and that you would like to move on. Break ups are hard for all concerned. You may breathe a sigh of relief when it is all over but you will also have some grieving to do even if you are the one initiating the break up. Especially if the two of you have been seeing each other for some time.

Tell them that after the break up you will adopt a no contact policy and if they try to contact you do not pick up the phone or answer any emails or texts. If they continue to try to get in touch with you you may have to consider changing your number. Remove them from all of your contact lists and continue to live your life.

Ending a relationship that is no longer working is really the best thing you can do. You owe it to yourself to be happy. It is time to stop making excuses and start living your life the way you were meant to. When your ex sees the difference then they will see that breaking up was the best thing that could have happened for the both of you.

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