Complaining is Evidence of Unbelief

Are you daily Complaining about Your Baby Daddy, Hair Weave or hair day, and Boogie Boss that attended a five Star College but lack a 5
cent common sense…?

How negative people program our minds I said many times before that the mind can be programmed by repetition. The reason most people fall in love with those they meet every day is that they get programmed by them on continues basis and the reason you buy brand names is the continues programming you received though brand advertisements. Not all programming works because for an idea to turn into a belief you have to trust the source of the idea. Now the problem is that negative people are among our friends, relatives and the most trusted people we know. Before you’re realized you must know thy self, are you becoming that friend or family??????

We may know it by different terms -- such as griping, grumbling, whining, or belly-aching. In the King James Version of the Bible, the common term used was “murmuring.” But regardless of the word we use to describe it, complaining always has the has the same symptoms. The dictionary defines it as “an expression of unhappiness, dissatisfaction, or discontent.” Complaining is the outward expression of discontent Nothing makes chronic complainers happier, than being more miserable...Despite how difficult their constant complaints are for those around them; chronic complainers do not usually see themselves as negative peopling from within.

We must realized how being around complainers rub off on our own personality. As we look back into the Old Testament and see how God dealt with the Children of Israel, we discover that the Lord always considered their complaints as an act of unbelief directed toward Him. When they complained about their circumstances, their type of food, and even at Moses, God was displeased because they weren’t thankful for what He had provided them. He was disappointed that they refused to trust in Him to provide, protect, and direct the order of their lives. “Now when the people complained, it displeased the LORD; for the LORD heard it, and His anger was aroused. So the fire of the LORD burned among them, and consumed some in the outskirts of the camp” (Numbers 11:1).

Complaining is Evidence of Unbelief

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