Mending A Broken Heart-Roller Coaster Of Emotions Not Forever
It's a pretty safe bet that many members of the animal kingdom feel various emotions. There is even strong evidence to suggest that some species care deeply for members of their family group, yet it's hard to imagine that any animal could have the same depth of affection as people do. familiar to you, then you can take comfort in knowing that mending a broken heart is possible.
Being in love is one of the strongest emotions there is. Even though love is a marvelous thing, there are some downsides to it. First, love can cloud your judgment; preventing you from seeing things as they are. Second, love doesn't always last and that can lead to intense heart break that may seem like it will never end. If this sounds
However, you need to stay grounded in reality. The truth is that while you can mend your heartache, it's rarely easy, and it will take some time before you return to feeling normal. That being said, it is worth the effort when you consider the alternative of not fixing the problem.
The funny thing about a broken heart is that you won't always feel like it's broken. There will be times when you feel sad, no doubt, but there will also be times that you feel guilty, angry or even relieved. But, until you are completely over your former partner, you can be sure that there is some heart break playing a role in your emotions. So, how do you go about mending a broken heart?
To be blunt, you need to confront the problem. While you may be able to take temporary comfort in denial, it will only delay things from getting better. You have to be completely honest with yourself and how you feel.
Being honest is the only way you will be able to work things out. It won't be easy, but you need to figure out why you feel so heartbroken. Do you feel betrayed by your ex? Do you feel you betrayed them? Was there a death? Were they unfaithful? Do you feel guilty? Do you think you could have done more? Do you think you did all you could, and just can't understand why you broke up anyway? Whatever it is, identifying the real problem is the key to solving it.
Once you have figured out what the root of your broken heart is, you can fix it. For example, if you're feeling guilty, then you need to forgive yourself. But if it was something your partner did, then you need to forgive them. You have to be willing to do whatever it is that needs to be done.
You also need to be realistic about mending a broken heart. Because it isn't always easy, you may not be able to do it on your own. If you find you're just not getting any better, then it may be time to seek help from a counselor...again, whatever it takes. Give it time and face it head on, and you will be feeling better before you know it.
It's a pretty safe bet that many members of the animal kingdom feel various emotions. There is even strong evidence to suggest that some species care deeply for members of their family group, yet it's hard to imagine that any animal could have the same depth of affection as people do. familiar to you, then you can take comfort in knowing that mending a broken heart is possible.
Being in love is one of the strongest emotions there is. Even though love is a marvelous thing, there are some downsides to it. First, love can cloud your judgment; preventing you from seeing things as they are. Second, love doesn't always last and that can lead to intense heart break that may seem like it will never end. If this sounds
However, you need to stay grounded in reality. The truth is that while you can mend your heartache, it's rarely easy, and it will take some time before you return to feeling normal. That being said, it is worth the effort when you consider the alternative of not fixing the problem.
The funny thing about a broken heart is that you won't always feel like it's broken. There will be times when you feel sad, no doubt, but there will also be times that you feel guilty, angry or even relieved. But, until you are completely over your former partner, you can be sure that there is some heart break playing a role in your emotions. So, how do you go about mending a broken heart?
To be blunt, you need to confront the problem. While you may be able to take temporary comfort in denial, it will only delay things from getting better. You have to be completely honest with yourself and how you feel.
Being honest is the only way you will be able to work things out. It won't be easy, but you need to figure out why you feel so heartbroken. Do you feel betrayed by your ex? Do you feel you betrayed them? Was there a death? Were they unfaithful? Do you feel guilty? Do you think you could have done more? Do you think you did all you could, and just can't understand why you broke up anyway? Whatever it is, identifying the real problem is the key to solving it.
Once you have figured out what the root of your broken heart is, you can fix it. For example, if you're feeling guilty, then you need to forgive yourself. But if it was something your partner did, then you need to forgive them. You have to be willing to do whatever it is that needs to be done.
You also need to be realistic about mending a broken heart. Because it isn't always easy, you may not be able to do it on your own. If you find you're just not getting any better, then it may be time to seek help from a counselor...again, whatever it takes. Give it time and face it head on, and you will be feeling better before you know it.
Hello Monica. In my opinion when you state that live doesn't last I disagree. True love that is a Godly love last forever. We enter into relationship and we get so caught up in thought and emotions and we mistake it for love. When it is simply a caring for, being considerate of. The heart in truth is a organ that pumps blood. What gets broken is the mind. The thoughts that cause emotions to arise are not produced in the chest but it the head. We ponder on thoughts of all that has happened keeping our minds shackled to the problems forgetting how to let go and let God. As I have written in my book "FROM THE HEART OF A RIGHTEOUS SINNER" learning what true lasting love is must be and can only be learned from God. When we begin to love according to Gods guide lines we begin to make better choices in obtaining a mate. We are not so quite to slaughter each others feelings. When problems arise, and yes even when in God there are problems; we and our spouses utilize the avenues Gid has made available to stay together, and work through the issues. If many keep being feed lies about broken heartedness then how can one heal. There are several kinds of love. Agape love means love of God. This love is I condition. Phileo love the love of man. This love is condition and can only love as long as it is one sided and things are in one persons favor. Should that balance shift, the door is now opened and in comes the feelings and emotions that produce words and actions that lead to the break up; thus causing the mind (heart) to be broken.
ReplyDeleteProverbs 4:23 keep thy heart with all diligence; for out if it are the issues if life.
Life is first thought of in our minds and then with actions we manifest it!
Thx for listening.